read this from my dynamics of interpersonal textbook:
1) there's always this tension between autonomy and connection, our desire to remain an individual but also to intimately connect to another person and to a relationship.
how true. we all value our freedom so much but yet yearn to share our lives with a special someone in life, to be part of their lives.
2) the tension between novelty and predictability centers on the dual desires for newness and adventure on the one hand and sameness and comfortableness on the other.
who doesn't love surprises and new excitements in life? but we do wish sometimes that there's something constant which we are familiar and comfortable with, giving us the assurances that we need. so sometimes, a constant r/s doesn't necessarily equal to a stagnant r/s. instead, a constant r/s might be a stable r/s after all.

i remember once telling myself that loving someone means believing in the Love even when the going gets tough, keeping the faith in the Love no matter how the surroundings may change, and falling in Love with the same person over and over again. i still believe in all these, after so much has happened. i still believe in Love.
maybe its true. the consent on the 8th nov is starting to make me a different person. i cut back on my drinks, curb my wilfulness, and start sharing my life once again with a special someone. lol. and yah, be accountable for my actions. :p
sometimes, i still can't believe i'm having something so perfect in my life. someone pinch me puhlease? heh. i never felt so blessed and happy for a long time. :)

cos you are the angel i can't defy.